Dost,
“Death do us apart”, “Friendship is a treasure for everyone ” are some of the good quotes about FRIENDSHIP.
But, I was still wondering do we need them ?
Do we need them or do we like them ?
I feel that we need them, yes we need them.
We need someone to care in our despair.
We need someone to laugh along during our happy moments.
We need someone’s shoulder to cry during our sad time.
We need someone like a friend.
We maybe busy,
We might suffer with troubles
But we need friends to listen to our issues
But, “I need not talk to him, I owe him nothing. He owes me everything! ” are some of the worst thoughts in friendship. Those are un warranted..
We discuss issues with friends, issues can be big or small
We talk of Big issues like financial problems: having a great debt, feeling lost with life, etc.
Small issues like, sharing that you drank the finger bowl offered after dinner at a restaurant, sharing that a teenager called you an uncle, etc.
We meet people, become familiar, make them friends, many good friends and few as close or best friends.
Our friends transition through all these phases,.
Few progress to higher level, few go few steps down.
The world is changing so are we.
We have changed so much that we are unable to meet once in a year.
We have changed so much that we can't talk for 20 mins on phone heart fully.
We have changed so much that we are not meeting though we stay in the same city.
We have changed for sure!
Well.. Is this change temporary or permanent ?
“Death do us apart”, “Friendship is a treasure for everyone ” are some of the good quotes about FRIENDSHIP.
But, I was still wondering do we need them ?
Do we need them or do we like them ?
I feel that we need them, yes we need them.
We need someone to care in our despair.
We need someone to laugh along during our happy moments.
We need someone’s shoulder to cry during our sad time.
We need someone like a friend.
We maybe busy,
We might suffer with troubles
But we need friends to listen to our issues
But, “I need not talk to him, I owe him nothing. He owes me everything! ” are some of the worst thoughts in friendship. Those are un warranted..
We discuss issues with friends, issues can be big or small
We talk of Big issues like financial problems: having a great debt, feeling lost with life, etc.
Small issues like, sharing that you drank the finger bowl offered after dinner at a restaurant, sharing that a teenager called you an uncle, etc.
We meet people, become familiar, make them friends, many good friends and few as close or best friends.
Our friends transition through all these phases,.
Few progress to higher level, few go few steps down.
The world is changing so are we.
We have changed so much that we are unable to meet once in a year.
We have changed so much that we can't talk for 20 mins on phone heart fully.
We have changed so much that we are not meeting though we stay in the same city.
We have changed for sure!
Well.. Is this change temporary or permanent ?
Change is necessary.Change may be temporary or permanent but without change we cannot move forward in life. So my friend accept all the changes for good as even when its good or bad its a learning to us. And we have friends whom we may not have met since more than 10-15 years or may not have spoken over phone for the same duration but still we know we will stand by each other when need be. keep celebrating friendship day everyday my friend and make new friends always ...:)
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